More thoughts 

on asking the right question.

In Matthew 18:1, 

the disciples asked Jesus 

a question:

"Who then is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" (NKJV)

They were assuming the greatest spot

would go to one of them, weren't they?

It's dangerous to assume things

in our relationship with Christ.

But they assumed.

After all, the position of prestige in His kingdom

will surely go to one us,

they must have thought.

I mean, we're the Big 12. 

We're the ones who have left all

to follow Him.

And we're the ones He chose!

We're the DISCIPLES.

We've been with Him for three years.

We've walked with Him.

Listened to Him.

Watched the miracles.

Even duplicated some of His miracles—

healed in His name—

and in His power.

Surely, when Jesus sets up His kingdom, 

one of us will be in a really high position

of authority!

But which one of us will it be?

Peter probably assumed it would be him.

After all, He WAS the president of the group.

A natural-born leader.

He was always the first to speak.

The first to act.

He was impulsive.

Impatient.

Bold.

Outspoken.

An extrovert in every sense of the word.

And Jesus did say,

"On you I will build My church.

You're the ROCK, Peter."

And then at another time, 

Jesus even said to Peter, 

"I'm giving you the keys 

to the kingdom of heaven and hell."

And Peter did walk on water.

Wow.

Surely, underneath Jesus, 

Peter would be the greatest

in God's kingdom.

But wait a sec.

John must have assumed the

position would go to him.

And that made sense. 

Think about it: Who was closest to Christ?

It was John.

Jesus had 12 disciples.

And out of the 12, He was closest to three:

James. John. Peter.

And out of those three, 

He was even closer to one.

JOHN.

And remember the Last Supper?

Who sat right next to Jesus?

John.

And John was so comfortable

in His presence, 

he leaned over and rested his head

on the shoulder of Christ.

So . . . surely . . . if Christ was going to

put someone in as His "vice-president"

it would be John—the one He was 

closest to, right?

But hold on.

James must have felt pretty important as well.

He was one of the "inner three" closest to Christ.

And remember the Mount of Transfiguration incident?

(Jesus, James, John and Peter on a mountain

being visited by Elijah and Moses.)

James hadn't forgotten that.

He was privileged to be a part of that.

Obviously, Jesus trusted him.

So he's thinking, I'm in the running.

But Matthew was a pretty important guy as well.

He left a lucrative business to follow Jesus.

Surely, Christ saw a lot worth admiring in Matthew

or He wouldn't have chosen him.

And the other disciples?

Actually, they were assuming the same thing:

This position of greatness in His kingdom

will probably go to me.

How do we know?

Because right after Mrs. Zebedee

(James and John's mom)

asked Christ if her sons could be

in the two most important positions

in His kingdom (the right and left)

of His throne . . .

the other disciples heard about it.

And Scripture tells us 

"they were INDIGNANT."

They were indignant.

They were furious.

They were livid.

Why?

Because EACH ONE OF THEM

wanted the position of greatness

in Christ's kingdom.

So what do we have here?

Looks like we have 12 amazing

disciples

who 

have

left

all

to 

follow Christ.

But 12 amazing disciples

who are full of themselves.

Me.

That's what it's all about.

I deserve.

I have a right to . . .

And how does Jesus handle their question?

Matthew 18:2-3 gives us His solemn answer.

"Then Jesus called a little child to Him,

set him in the midst of them,

and said,

'Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted 

and become as little children,

you will by no means

enter the kingdom of heaven.'" (NKJV)

Unless you are CONVERTED?

Hey! These aren't just any people off the street, Jesus!

These are Your disciples.

Remember?

They've left everything.

What do You mean . . . converted?

You will by NO MEANS enter

the kingdom of heaven?

If You're saying the disciples may not

make it to heaven . . .

what does that say to me?

OK, Girls.

I'm stopping here for now.

I'll give you more later.

But first . . . 

I want to know your thoughts.

Those are two heavy thoughts:

1. Jesus telling the DISCIPLES they had to be CONVERTED.

2. And if they weren't, they'd by no means enter heaven.

So . . . what are you thinking?

Love you!

Susie Shellenberger

Hi, Girls!

I've enjoyed reading your responses to Christ's question to you.

As you know . . . we've been talking about asking the right question.

(See the past two blog entries if you're just now joining us.)

The Bible gives an amazing example of the disciples asking the

wrong question.

It's found in Matthew 18:1:

"At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, 'Who then is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?'" (NKJV)

I'll share more on this later . . . but first I want to know what YOU'RE thinking. 

Why was this the wrong question to ask?

Love,

Susie Shellenberger

We've been chatting about asking the right question.

And girls, I love the way you're turning your questions

around to make them right!

That's exciting.

(If you've just joined us, read the last blog entry

so you'll be "in the know" and can comment with

us, OK?)

Jesus loves your questions.

But He wants you to ask the right questions.

And sometimes Jesus will ask you a question.

In Matthew 20:29, Jesus asked two blind men a question:

"'What do you want me to do for you?' he asked." (NIV)

The two blind men were specific in their answer.

They told Jesus they'd love to see.

Like the two blind guys, Jesus wants YOU 

to be specific in your conversations 

with Him.

"Jesus had compassion on them and touched their eyes.

Immediately they received their sight and followed him." 

(Matthew 20:34 NIV)

I like the way The Message paraphrases the above verse:

"Deeply moved, Jesus opened their eyes."

Wow.

Jesus is deeply moved when you respond

with the right focus.

Jesus asked the question.

The two guys responded specifically.

Honestly.

They became His followers.

Jesus was deeply moved.

Earlier, (in Matthew 20:20), 

Jesus asked Mrs. Zebedee

the same question.

She was the mom of

James and John—

two of Christ's disciples.

Mama Zebedee—

like the two blind guys—

also responded to His question.

But her focus was completely off.

"'What is it you want?' he asked." (NIV)

And Mama Zebedee then asked if 

her boys could have the two top

places of honor in God's kingdom.

"Can Jimmy and Johnnie sit at Your

right- and left-hand spots

when You set up your kingdom?

They'd look great on the right and left

of Your throne. You know . . . 

with You being in the center of course."

Remember the last blog entry?

There's always a question behind the question.

What was she really asking?

"Can You make my boys important? 

Cuz if You can elevate them to positions 

of importance . . . it's gonna make me

feel really good about myself."

It was all about her.

Jesus saw through her question.

She had the same opportunity

the two blind guys had.

The Creator of the universe

walked right up to her and said, 

"What do you want?"

WOW!

Talk about a loaded question!

If her focus had been right . . .

she would have asked a different question.

OK.

It's your turn.

Think about it.

Realize this.

KNOW it.

The King of kings has approached you.

And right now He's asking you a question:

"What do you want Me to do for you?"

Wow.

What's your response?

Love,

Susie

I've been reading a book called

QBQ—

the Question Behind the Question

by John G. Miller.

Though it's really a book for 

corporations and businesses,

I'm fascinated by it

because of the simple fact

that there's usually another question

behind the question we're asking.

Example: In a corporate world, 

an employee might ask,

"Why doesn't our manager give us

enough budget to do a great job?"

The question that should be asked is,

"How can I do the best job possible with

the limited resources I have?"

I've been using this book to help me think

in terms of the girls in our sisterhood.

School is right around the corner,

and you're about to walk back onto your campus.

You may be tempted, after a few days,

to ask, "How come I don't have great friends?"

Let me challenge you to turn that around.

Ask instead, "What can I do to be a great friend to others?"

Instead of asking, "Why do I have such a lousy math teacher?"

Ask instead, "What can I do on my own to better understand the assignment?"

Instead of asking, "How come this jerk sits next to me in history class?"

Ask instead, "What can I do to be a positive light in his life?"

And I've also been thinking about some of the questions 

the disciples asked Christ.

In John 6:16, we read about a storm. 

The disciples were already in the boat.

Jesus  hadn't joined them yet.

Verse 19 tells us, "When they had rowed three or three and a half miles, 

they saw Jesus approaching the boat.

walking on the water; 

and they were terrified."

Jesus told them not to be afraid.

He got into the boat.

And SUDDENLY

they were immediately on the shore!

(Scripture hints that Christ just PUT them

immediately where they needed to be.)

When they got to the shore, the crowds

who had been following Jesus couldn't

believe He was there.

They knew He hadn't rowed there.

In verse 25, some of the followers

asked Him HOW He got there.

WHEN He got there.

Jesus basically told them they 

weren't asking the right questions.

You see, their question really revealed

the question behind it!

They weren't actually interested

in Jesus' ministry on the shore.

Rather, they were into the spectacular.

They wanted to know about the "magic-ness"

of HOW He got there and WHEN it happened.

Their focus was completely off.

And Christ told them.

In the next couple of verses (26-27), He tries

to realign their focus.

As you think about your campus,

your friends,

your part-time job,

your family,

your community,

your future . . .

what questions are you asking?

Jesus LOVES your questions!

But He wants you to be asking the right ones.

Consider the questions you ask.

What's the REAL question behind the question you're asking?

We'll chat more about some off-beat questions

from the Bible.

But first . . . I want to know your thoughts about this.

And I want to know what kind of questions

you've been asking—that you're now beginning to realize

really weren't the right questions at all.

Love you!

Susie Shellenberger

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I'm saying

YES, Lord

to blue skies

and warm sunshine today.

YES, Lord

to friends

and dreams,

laughter,

good health,

games of racquetball,

praise music in my heart

and

Your presence so precious and near.

But I'm also saying

YES, Lord

to gray skies . . . maybe tomorrow . . .

and rain that won't stop,

thunder so loud it smells of fear

and being alone.

I'm saying

YES, Lord

to tears

and unfulfilled dreams.

YES, Lord 

when the music has stopped

and You feel more than a universe away.

You are the King of my mountaintops (Oh, thank You for these times)

but You are also

LORD of my valleys (teach me to thank You for these times as well).

"O my soul,

why be so gloomy

and discouraged?

Trust in God!

I shall again praise him for his wondrous help;

he will make me smile again,

for he is my God!"

(Psalm 43:5 The Living Bible)